Good read on Heroes and Heartbreakers the other day: Romance Passes the Bechdel Test.
For those who don’t know, the Bechdel Test was basically created to determine whether a form of entertainment respects women. it judges films, television shows, books etc. on whether female characters are more than their relationships with men:
The rules now known as the Bechdel test first appeared in 1985 in Alison Bechdel’s comic strip Dykes To Watch Out For…
…two women discuss seeing a film and one woman explains that she only goes to a movie if it satisfies the following requirements:
1. The movie has to have at least two women in it,
2. who talk to each other,
3. about something besides a man.
Romance – sometimes justifiably (*especially* books in the Young Adult and New Adult genres) – cops some criticism for not passing this simple test, meaning the female characters only exist to fight over guys.
However, this article argues something slightly different.
If I think of my favourite romances? Yes, the fact they are called ROMANCE means men play a big part in them, but plenty of authors also make the female friendships and relationships very important.
Think, for example, Lisa Kleypas’ Wallflowers series (or any of her books, actually – historical or contemporary). The female connections come long before the romantic relationships with men do.
Toni Blake’s books are first and foremost about female friendships.
Think of Robyn Carr’s small town stories. She actually calls come of her books “girlfriend books” because the women’s connections come first.
How about Anne Gracie’s wonderful stories with sisters and friends? The Autumn Bride doesn’t even introduce the hero until 1/4 of the book is over, but we have plenty of time to meet the series’ four heroines and watch them go to hell and back together.
Madeline Hunter works very hard on female AND male friendships. It is one of the reasons she is one of my absolute favourites.
I recently unfollowed some men online because they were sharing “jokes” about women. Memes about how there’s no point trying to understand women – because women do, and ‘that’s why they hate each other’.
Ha, ha, ha, ha…. or not.
I see (and hear from some people, too often of “a certain generation”) about how women are all bitches, and women hate each other, and women this, and women that. As though men are better specimens because they were born with different equipment dangling between their legs.
It’s not true. Just because women might sometimes be more emotional about some situations – well, that’s because so often women care more, and look after their families better. Every family emergency and death I’ve been part of recently? It was the women diving in and doing the hard work, caring for sick family members, supporting each other, organising funerals, making the phone calls and writing the cards.
I like any article that celebrates that instead of scorning it, and hope to see more of this on romance and women’s fiction sites.